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2022.03.01 19:48 LongJonSiIver Disney Dreamlight Valley
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2023.04.01 13:36 SellingMyselfOnline Using hunt contracts to join others
So a friend and I typically go as a duo in DMZ with the goal of getting last exfil. Of course the odds of that greatly rise with more than just two people (with an chance of a random actually tagging along for once). We try to stay in party chat to avoid the hassles of prox chat while still being able to see if others are nearby; however, that means we don’t hear any friendly call outs be-it fake or real. To counteract that problem, we are always requesting to join other teams as we move throughout the map, even purposely running towards enemy comms or shots when seen on the compass. Works half the time but not complaining as it’s pvp and whatever I lose is pretty easy to get back.
With that exposition aside, we’ve started to get hunt contracts first thing and then trying to join to team we’re hunting (only shooting if they shoot first type of deal). Rate of joining teams skyrockets and we get money for “surviving the hunt”.
As an opposing team, how would you feel about the tactic? Too much trauma from betrayals or would you be trusting enough? Any other opinions?
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2023.04.01 13:36 based47 Just got into UBC!!
Hi guys this came as such a shock because I applied very late (about 2 hours or so before the deadline). I'm from India and I applied for Bachelor of Arts program (pol sci) and I just received the acceptance email. I'm happy about this but honestly have very little clue how to deal with the funding, does anyone know if there are student loans I could take for the BA program? Also would love to hear if any political science students studying at the university could tell me how good the pol sci program is at UBC.
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2023.04.01 13:35 Zentrophy Trusting the Process
So I posted here a few weeks ago, planning on tapering off of my 170mg methadone prescription, and I wasn't able to get any headway due to my counselor quitting his job, which basically cancelled the entire process of me trying to get the doctor to taper me off.
I feel kind of anxious because now I've been on methadone for fifteen months and I talk to people at the clinic every day at the bus stop, it seems like most of the people at my clinic have been on methadone for 10-20 years and that scares the hell out of me. The last fifteen months have gone by so fast and I just can't wait to be off this stuff.
Anyways, my new counselor is supposed to be a lot more experienced, I've known him for a while, and honestly my last counselor was really inexperienced and had never started a client's taper before so I feel a lot better about dealing with my new counselor... I just can't wait to finally be tapering off this junk.
I keep thinking about what God wants me to get out of this experience, and I honestly am really starting to feel like I'm getting to a place where I won't want to ever touch an opioid again, and as difficult as this entire process has been, I'm really grateful for that.
When I was younger, I never felt comfortable in my own skin, and when I found opiates, I thought I found what I'd been looking for my whole life, I think you guys all know how that goes. Anyways, I finally got clean at 21, but I always had a reservation in the back of my head that I'd try getting high again once I was financially stable and successful and the person I wanted to be, so I could see if the drugs were really the problem. 5 years 4 years later I was doing great but hit a rough patch and relapsed... and I lost everything.
I've been on methadone for 15 months now and honestly... I just can't wait until I'm completely clean. I really feel as though God put me through this so I can fully get my cravings and obsession with drugs out of my system; we never really know what the future will hold, but I really do feel confident that once I get off this stuff, I'll really be able to live the rest of my life free from drugs. I pray to God every day for guidance and help, and even though I get impatient and anxious sometimes, I really do feel like I'm exactly where I need to be.
For anyone who's struggling right now, just trust the process. Things can get better, and there is an end to your pain. If you don't pray a lot, all I can recommend is trying. I'm amazed at how often my prayers are answered, even the mundane ones
Anyways guys, I just felt like checking in. Thanks to everyone in this community for being so supportive.
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2023.04.01 13:35 Plus-Bed3874 High eosinophil, in range absolute eosinophil
Hi I’m a 28 y/o female with no major medical problems other then anxiety and borderline anemia, so I recently got bloodwork done and noticed my eosinophils have been high the past few times I’ve had blood drawn. -03/31/23 8:42 am 6.6 % -10/11/22 8:03 am 4.9 % -07/13/22 8:35 am 6.8 % -05/17/22 8:30 am 4.9 % -11/29/21 9:30 am 4.6% 07/12/21 10:07 pm 6.1 % 09/28/20 10:39 pm 1.3 % My doctors always told me my blood work looked good, so I’m a bit confused if my eosinophils are high why they didn’t discuss it with me. I’m currently dealing with crazy bloating in my upper abdomen, I’ve spoken to my doctor and I’ve been to the ER about it and they just says it’s constipation. Please help I’ve look on google and they said high eosinophils can indicate parasites, allergies, infection, and cancer. I will say by WBC and RBC are both in rang. Mind you my absolute eosinophil have been in good range, and again I’m confused because is one more important then the other? Is that why my doctors haven’t discussed it with me? Please help!
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2023.04.01 13:34 rowillhityou Royce shouts Eminem out in two songs on his new Ep!
Just hope Eminem knows how I am feeling, because working with him is certainly an honour and a privilege, first he got me my deal then, my label dropped me, must have been timing, shady came back and signed me.
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2023.04.01 13:34 KoreoBace Would calling myself a SA survivor be the SA variant of stolen valor?
I (18M) have experienced what would be considered sexual assault, but I don’t even know if my experience has any validity to it.
I had to stay at a psychiatry for other teenagers for a couple of months back when I was 13 where I had to deal with this one girl (16 at the time) who had this obsession with me. I remember at least 2-3 occasions where she would try to use me as a body pillow against my will, and there was this one time she ganged up on me with another girl (14 at the time) and they both started grabbing at my dick for nearly half a minute after suspecting I had a boner. I was under the delusion that sexual assault can only be man-on-woman, so I literally didn’t even realize it until a full three years later. I only hit the realization by complete accident sometime after searching up ‘male rape’ on YouTube out of sheer curiosity, which resulted in me looking more into male sexual misconduct which wound up making me realize that sexual misconduct is not a one way street after all as well suddenly remembering what happened years ago. But even now, I still feel like fraud for having the audacity to label myself as a sexual assault survivor.
Unlike most experiences I’ve read here and elsewhere, even from people whose experiences were on a similar or even a lower level of severity, the experiences didn’t affect me at all. They left me with zero trauma, they had zero effect on my life, I completely forgot about it for years, it completely disappeared from my mind for years, it never popped up in my mind, it never gave me any flashbacks, it never gave me any nightmares, it never popped up in my dreams, reading sexual assault stories or seeing sexual assault scenes in movies doesn’t ‘trigger’ me or any of that, if anything it just kinda feels awkward, I don’t understand this whole ‘feeling disgusted with yourself’ thing, I don’t even remember what I was wearing when it happened, I don't even know how to respond to people who come forward about sexual assault other than thinking "Ok. Well, that sucks I guess.", I even had to visit the place where it happened after I was released for a couple of appointments but the incident never crossed my mind, and basically it didn’t affect me at all until I hit the realization years later. And even after that, the only thing it really did was leave me with the typical feeling of betrayal and deception for having been lied to and suddenly make me feel threatened and offended by the mere presence of other girls my age (who I don’t know), but for some reason it’s less about being worried they’ll sexually assault me and more about being worried they’ll falsely accuse me of sexually assaulting/harassing them as well as this whole feeling of "People like you got away with casually sexually assaulting me. Go fuck yourself hypocritical scum."? Hell, even puny things like toxic players in online videogames, annoying characters or scenes in movies/TV shows, or having to deal with annoying children in public seem to affect me way more. Hell, I also recently had to deal with a bunch of girls who've been stalking me, and this too seems to have affected me way more.
Considering I’ve read stories of women getting PTSD or just being mentally scarred from groping or verbal harassment, even when it was done by just one person, sometimes after one instance, sometimes at the absence of any violence, whereas I was completely unaffected after having been ganged up on, and even though I have read stories of male victims having to deal with those psychological issues, trying to call myself a sexual assault survivor literally makes me feel and sound like a fraud because I cannot relate to or understand any of the psychological issues most other sexual assault survivors seem to be having to deal with, so I don’t even know if it’s right for me to call myself a sexual assault survivor because unlike most other people, I was completely unaffected and could easily pass as somebody who’s never even heard of sexual assault, which is basically what I thought I was until I hit the realization. Even now, grouping myself with sexual assault survivors feels like committing stolen valor. But what do I know.
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2023.04.01 13:33 jadenwu39x SeatGeek Coupon code of April 2023
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2023.04.01 13:33 daneyos 2007 Toyota Sequoia 219k miles and some issues, is it worth it?
Hey, I am looking at a 2007 Toyota Sequoia with 219k miles on it listed for $5500. It needs new front strut as well as a spring coil conversion in the rear due to failing air suspension. It has recently had its timing belt replaced as well as brakes, alternator, and battery. It's a 4x4 limited. Could this be a good deal and what other things should I look foask? Thanks!
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2023.04.01 13:31 Lord__Business IMPURRTENT ANNOUNCEMENT REGARDING SUB CHANGES: MEOW.
Okay folks, here's the deal. Frustration with Kabam and this game is at an all-time high. We don't want that energy here. It's too much. It's not relaxed enough, and definitely doesn't fit our vibe. We just want to lie in the sun and sleep, not deal with all this hullabaloo. It's time to bury the poop.
After weeks of discussion, the mods have decided that this sub is now about cats
. That's right, everyone's favorite felines are not only our mascot, they're our sole focus in the sub, and life.
I know everyone is thrilled with this change and that we will encounter zero resistance. But to ensure a smooth transition, additional rules are hereby implemented, EFFECTIVE IMMEDIATELY
- All posts and comments must involve cats. Either references to cats, cat puns, or they glorify cats in a way that makes mods happy. Posts not appropriately on-topic are subject to removal and hissing.
- Posts about that silly MCOC game will be removed (mods will not, however, be pawtrolling the Daily Discussion or Rank Up threads, should you wish to post your subpar game banter there).
- Posting about dogs in a positive light is a bannable offense. Posts and comments about how dogs are inferior are both permitted and encouraged.
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2023.04.01 13:31 AutoModerator [Get] Biaheza – Dropshipping 2023 Full Course Download
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2023.04.01 13:31 Main-Ad1178 How to deal with my husband’s unpleasant uncle?
I am married for 10 years, we are together for 12 and we are very happy. We have very similar personalities, play our little games with each other every day. We have a happy marriage, there’re never fights or anything like that. We are genuinely very much alike and have a quiet peaceful family.
My husband is American, I am Eastern European. Idk if it plays a role here, but I think it might. I work and make more than twice more money than my husband, I am not on his back or anything. It’s because we are in different industries- he is in law enforcement and I am in private corporate sector. I am very proud of him, he is a great guy and a straight arrow. He is maybe making less, but he is a very good officer, he always does the right thing and he is my hero. He risks his life every day. He volunteered for 9/11 and has an award for it; that goes to show you his personality and bravery. I love my husband so much.
My husband has an uncle who is 80 y.o., and I am very uncomfortable with his remarks towards me. It happened multiple times.
For example, at a party my father-in-law wasn’t feeling well, I asked if he would like me to grab some food for him. FIL was very grateful and agreed. Uncle said “You trained her well” to my husband. This was some time ago.
Last Saturday at a party he invited us to his house over the summer (they live next to the beach), and said that he “Would like to see me in bikini”.
I have never said anything, just ignored these comments.
My main concern is that I don’t want to have conflict with my husbands family under any circumstances - he will take my side (he did before when his aunt was drunk and aggressive to me for no reason. He told her if that was to happen again he’d cut any communication and she is very careful since then).
I don’t want him to be in the middle, I know I am in-law and relatives most likely will take uncles side because he is closer. He is a blood relative. They’re a tight net Italian heritage family.
I don’t want any stress for my husband, it can be a serious conflict if I confront him and people start taking sides.
But I am very uncomfortable with the situation. Please advice.
Tl:dr My husbands uncle makes disrespectful remarks towards me, I am not sure how to deal with them without creating a major conflict.
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2023.04.01 13:30 AutoModerator [Get] Khang Le – Wholesale to Millions
2023.04.01 13:30 NoNamePhantom I hate credit cards, i really do
Idk why everyone in my family were all insistent about, "get 'this' or 'that' card for cash back" and/or the "increases your credit score" crap!
I say no, but they go "but why???!"
Truly, i dont really care about the cash back or credit score. Just opening another card is just going to be a hassle to deal with. I'm stuck with a freaking loan debt and I don't want anymore debt than what i already have.
Isn't being finiancilly responsible more than enough? I'm not much of spender and only buy what I need (ie essentials and some groceries on a tight budget).
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2023.04.01 13:29 Bubbl3gumTat3 Stardew Valley or Skyrim: Anniversary Edition?
I’ve just got a Switch OLED and thought I’d ask you experts on what to do!
Always been big on my RPGs and I’m looking for something to scratch that itch. I’ve played Legend of Zelda: BOTW and have Hades as my ‘just-one-more-run’ game but wanting that Role Play life now.
Currently torn between Stardew Valley (never played) and Skyrim, which I got the platinum for on ps4 but having it in hand held seems so damn tempting (especially as the AE is on sale). Just seems mental to buy a decade old game (again), especially when I’ve heard Stardew Valley could possibly scratch that itch and apparently has a ton of content to dive into.
Things I tend to look for are a solid story, character customisation and builds, leaning into role play (but never been too huge on/properly tried sims). I’m a big DnD guy and enjoy my immersion; I love me some hunting/gathering, selling my wares and never using fast travel along with NPC dialogue and feeling like a ‘character’.
So yeh, hit me with your wisdom!
P.s My first post, so be gentle.
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2023.04.01 13:29 marsmanofearth3000 Am i the jerk for calling the police on two girls that had been bullying me
this is an update to my last post, when i got them sent off school.
so these two girls had been sent off my school in my last post and have been harasing me at my house. somehow they got my adress and are now reguraly coming to my house. the last time that they came they threw a rock into my window. i kinda think it might have been better to deal with the bullying. but so my parents have called their parents and explaind that they had to pay for the damages or we would be calling the police. the convetation went like this, (for the sake of the story we will call my mom becky and the other mom karen)
becky: hello my name is becky do you have a minute
karen: yes i do why are you calling me
becky: your daughter has been harassing my son, thats also the reason your daughter got sent off school.
karen: my daughter would never do that!
becky: well she did and i need you to pay for the damages or we will sue you
karen: oh get over it, it cant be that bad.
becky: she threw a rock through our window.
karen: prove it. *hangs up*
so i had been listening in and had overheard the entire convesation. i cant believe that she could be such a karen. so now my dad is angry and he takes the phone from my mom and calles the karen back. now im not gonna quote what he said because it has a bunch of cuss words but i can give you the jif of what he said: he said that if she didnt emediatly come over to our house and pay he would be calling the police, he gives her our address and sure enough about 30 to 40 minutes later she comes up to our door and rings the doorbell. my dad is pissed and starts schreaming at her and her daughter saying that if she doent emeidiatly give the money he would call the police. i had already dialed 911 so all i had to do was press the call button on my phone, than the karen said: your bluffing. thats when i had enough. i schreamed through the hallway at this woman, saying that we werent bluffing and that i would call the cops, i show her my phone. than this karen smacked me and said: dont you dare talk to me like that. i had had enough i called the cops and sarah started pleeding with me to stop but i didnt. her mom said: come on my sweet baby lets go, my dad wanted to run after them but i asked him not to. of course i had the webcam and i had filmed the whole thing so when the cops got there i just showed them the footage. about three hours later we recieve money into our bank account that would be enough to fix our window, the police came by later and asked if we were going to press charges, we havent had any problams yet so we hope its over,
so am i the jerk for calling the cops on these karens
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2023.04.01 13:28 ZyphyrdylN My cardiologist is great, but I think he may be a little stumped.
My cardiologist is one of the top in my state, he’s dealt with a ton of cases and has a huge group of colleagues to consult and discuss with. I had my tilt table test 2 weeks ago. That’s when he said for sure that he thinks it’s some sore of dysautonomia/ autonomic nerve issue.
He was at the hospital when I did my TTT and administered/ overlooked it when I had it going on. After, he said that he wanted me to stay with simple hydration and salt, the basic stuff. But I pushed and said that I don’t think I can deal with this anymore, and that I would really like to try anything to help. He said that he would talk with his colleagues and see if they can find something for me.
He did say that there was one medicine that he might be wanting to try on me, although he never gave me a name. I’m assuming it’s some sort of beta blocker. But I’m not entirely sure. If anyone has any idea on what it might be please let me know.
Didn’t faint. BP didn’t fall but had risen after being vertical. HR rose to 130-145 when upright. Resting HR was 80 when laying down.
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2023.04.01 13:28 Training-Law4179 scared of future
Hi, I've spend the last 8 months improving myself, I started a cs degree, got my physical health in check and a couple of other things. I spend most of my days studying for my cs degree, and was even capable of getting really high results at my last exam (almost top of my year). But for the last couple weeks I've been scared. With the latest breakthroughs in AI, I'm scared for my future. I feel like everything that everything that I'm doing will just become obsolete. This feeling is making me fall back into my old habits, I have been wasting my days numbing my brain just to not feel scared. I don't know how to deal with it. This is the first time in my life where I started caring about my future, and immediately it has paralyzed me. Is there anybody that knows ways to deal with the feeling of uncertainty? I only want to become extremely good at something so I would be somebody for once in my life.
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2023.04.01 13:28 snowiekitten Which air purifiers are best for removing mold mycotoxins from the air? Are these ones good?
I'm considering getting the BLUAIR Protect 7470i, do you guys think it can remove most of the mycotoxins from the air? And are air purifiers with UV-C potentially better than the ones I listed? #1
The Austin Air HealthMate™ HM200 (Price: $800) This may be one of the best. I'm not 100% sure how effective it really is at removing mycotoxins, but all sources I came across have said that it is. Can be found on ebay for $150, making this potentially the best deal.
BLUEAIR Protect 7470i ($250-$500) Filters 0.1 microns, has a well designed ionizer, very good carbon filter, and electrostatic filtration (this is called "HEPASilent Ultra™" and "Germshield™").
IQAir® HealthPro Plus ($800) Filters 0.003 microns. This is the best one, it will certainly remove all the mycotoxins, but it's expensive. Can be found for cheaper on ebay, saw them for $300.
Intellipure® UltraFine 468 ($999) Filters 0.007 microns. Most likely filters all the mycotoxins.
AIRDOCTOR AD2000 ($200-$500) This one claims to be able to remove 0.003 microns. I don't think this claim is true, it seems to only be as good as a normal HEPA filter.
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2023.04.01 13:28 adhd-photokid The more I learn, the more I hate my ex
My ex and I split a year ago. We were insanely in love. We had issues at home like not doing the dishes right away etc but nothing really overly consuming. We were, again, incredibly in love and felt so supported by each other.
A few difficult things happened in my exs life and she lost a lot of very close people in a very short period of time. She had never lost anyone before. I had dealt with this kind of loss and supported her to the best of my capabilities.
I stood by her side, took care of her, supported her emotionally, made sure to make space for her emotions and grief, while providing fun and love. I held her when she would break down at night and cry herself to sleep. I listened to every single thing she had to say and provided all the support o could, I encouraged her to go back to therapy to deal with her issues. I was a fucking rock.
Months went by and my exs grief turned into anger, anger that was aimed at me. It was devastating.
At first, I was able to reframe situations and help her understand that no, she wasn’t mad at me because she forgot to wash a dish, she was mad at life because things were hard and life was putting her in a difficult position.
After a couple of months her anger escalated to the point that she would get angry for requesting advice, or sympathy, or just wanting to share something that happened in my life.
She lost all empathy for me at one point. But we continued being incredibly in love and started salvaging parts of our relationship.
That is, until, I hit a wall. I felt so defeated. So weak bu all her constant nagging and making me feel like I could never do anything right. I asked her if we were going to make it.
This conversation lasted a couple of months and she decided she didn’t want to try. So we split and I moved out.
We continued dating for a few weeks after ending things and me moving out. We saw each other frequently and continued expressing love.
Every since the breakup things have been shit. So much has happened and she has done things that truly make me resent her.
I realized she was emotionally abusive and more. She’s done horrible things to take any power or will away from me and I am very tired.
We’re not in each other lives anyone other than the ocasional text and run-in.
Today I found out that while we were still seeing each other, not even two weeks after I moved out, SHE HAD ALREADY STARTED DATING HER NEW PARTNER. She moved this person into our old place THREE MONTHS after I moved out.
The level of disrespect is insane and so is the disregard for our relationship and everything I did for her.
I have so much love for her but fuck I hate her so much. I hate how hesrtless she was, how emotionally abusive, how much trauma she caused.
I hate she made me feel like nothing, and discarded me just as easily when I was “the one” I’m ducking angry.
She took my pets, most of my furniture, my favorite shorts and hoodies, my fucking happiness, my mental health, GONE.
She made me feel like the worst person to have ever lived yet here I am, hurt like a little POs.
And I’m so tired of feeling this way and finding out new things that continue to hurt me. I expected better.
Thanks for reading
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